Reflection on 49th
year High School Reunion - National Hsinchu Girls’ Senior High School (國立新竹女中)
I do not know why I
have been dreaming of being back at school ever since I was retired in
2014. Could I be experiencing anxiety or
nostalgia for days gone by? Now I am an
empty nester - two kids all grown up and had family of their own; husband,
forever busy with his business – hey, why can’t I kick my heels up and enjoy
the life of my well-deserved retirement life?
Seriously, I found out that retirement was a traumatic life change of
all. Like many friends of mine left
Taiwan 30+ or 40+ years ago and settled in America, I buried myself in work at
Montgomery County Government in Maryland to find the vast opportunities to
climb the corporate ladder, if you found your niche. Yes, I found it! However, as soon as I retired, they hit me
like a sledgehammer.
It was
around summer time this year, I suggested Jenny (唐傳玉), my high school and National Cheng
Kung University pal, recently retired in May 2016, to plan this 49th
year High School Reunion trip when some of NCKU retirees were meeting in
Hsinchu. I was so glad Hsiu-Feng (蕭秀鳳), my classmate at 三年一班 and my chum at National Cheng Kung
University agreed with my idea. And of course, Jenny (唐傳玉), a natural born leader, made the
arrangement with the Principal’s Office in advance with her close school friend
(劉苑平) from 三年六班,
helped pave the
way to make it possible. I appreciated
greatly for their efforts. Without them,
we would have looked in from the iron fence at the school entrance. Unfortunately, 劉苑平 had to
miss it due to prior commitment to care for her aging mother.
So, Monday, Oct 24, 2016, I
touted this visiting Hsinchu Seniors High School, as making the holy
pilgrimage. It’s here where I made the passage from
adolescence to adulthood. At this
formative stage where I powered up the brain and soaked up copious of knowledge
for the most important three years of my life.
I reflected on those life-shaping three years and what life in a small town,
Hsinchu, meant to me as an adult, I would like to capture the memories for the
future generation, my children and grandchildren. So, it will bring richness and depth to my
family’s history one day. Preserving the
following stories can be a tremendous gift for them from a mother and a
grandmother.
(1)
The School front gate entrance, then and
now
Military etiquette: to greet (salute) a
teacher every morning. Wouldn’t it be
the same as the school kids in America who pledge allegiance to the Flag and
the Republic for which it stands, one nation, indivisible, with liberty and
Justice for all? One is in action to the
respectable teachers while the other in reciting to pay tribute a symbolic
country.
(2) My old classroom (the first one on the right – the grey color building with the Japanese Stone Lantern in front)
The open ditch where we sat one-by-one every
morning, after the mandatory classroom cleaning and before the assembly in the
school field, to cram for the first-period’s unannounced test is now all
covered. Hsiu-Feng (蕭秀鳳), don’t forget, you were next to me at one time. The hedge plants served as private screens
were now replaced with tall palm trees.
The Japanese stone lantern, dated back to the Japanese Period, was
relocated to here from the backyard garden, stood as the symbol for our old
friendship. It shapes us for a life
time.
(3) The small auditorium (
(3) The small auditorium (
My memories ran vividly when we had the final exam
here as the mock college entrance exam.
Hsinchu Girls’ Senior High School was notoriously known for its
competitive and tough tests three times a week without announcing any subject
in advance. I also remember that we had
the school choir competition on the stage signing Offenbach’s Barcarolle
from “The Tales of Hoffmann” – The famous Gondola Boat Song (霍夫曼 - 船歌) The music teacher(徐晉淵) admiringly sat in
the audience seat listened attentively to our lovely song that we voted among
the classmates. We made to the honorable-mentioned
roll without his any help at all. His
focus was to encourage us begin building the characteristics of a leader, which
is teamwork and collaboration. Boy, was I
proud to be one of his students. As I
can recall today, we not only assembled from scratch a harmonious choir group
among the 50 classmates with different
singing voice types. we also picked our own conductor 陳優美, who was so talented and gracious and piano accompanist that I could not remember the name now. It was not easy to find students who knew how to play piano then. But, somehow we had an accomplished loaner from other class.
singing voice types. we also picked our own conductor 陳優美, who was so talented and gracious and piano accompanist that I could not remember the name now. It was not easy to find students who knew how to play piano then. But, somehow we had an accomplished loaner from other class.
(4)
The disciplinary effects of cleaning the
classroom and the rest of the school – ground, garden, bathrooms, school field,
etc.
These activities of cleaning all create a sense
of community and responsibility for the place where we live - the world and
environment. I had told my kids at one
time about how I was scolded as an
elected class cleaning leader, after the military instructor (喻鳳鼎教官),calling out on the school public announcement, among all other guilty class leaders for failing to
assign the classmates to polish the window frames spic and span. She had the white gloves on, as I demonstrated in the picture, to inspect every
corner of each classroom. Boy, was she
harsh! However, I deeply thank her for
being strict to train me as a role model parent for my children. They started doing their own laundry and
family chores when they were around age 10.
(5)
Reminiscing about the “Good Old Days”
Seeing all these pictures made me want to
transport myself back in time so I could hang out again with old pals. Here we are, Thanks to Jenny (唐傳玉), Hsiu-Feng (蕭秀鳳), and three junior alumni (校友會李妙靜理事長,
徐靖媛秘書,編輯, 與母校林春蘭秘書) made my dream come true.
Life is short, we are all 49 years older. We have matured and gained a fuller
perspective of what matters in life. I
wish to go back to simpler time when it was just easy and that’s just
that. It may have been challenging in
the midst of it all, but looking back now, I’m sure we’d go back for one last,
good time. Back then, everyone knew how
to work the system.
So, now the most important thing is to be
ourselves and to be comfortable with who we are. By now, we are all beyond showing off. We no longer have anything to prove but
relaxing and enjoying our life ahead of us.
All in all, I made it so far, owing to Hsinchu
Girls’ Senior School (國立新竹女中), my home town, my teachers, classmates, friends and the
people who made it special! That’s why I
will never forget!
Thanks and keep in touch!
From Janice Chang
吳玉琴
From Janice Chang
吳玉琴