Friday, February 13, 2015

Three Retired Ladies’ adventurous and cultural immersion trip (1/19/2015 - 1/22/2015) – Charleston, S. Carolina


Preface

Have you ever heard of ‘Spur-of the-Moment’ road trip?  If you have, yes, this is it.  We, three retired ladies, all golden girls - Mimi, a successful property manager, Jen-Jen, a respected Air Force nurse and me, the senior IT specialist from Montgomery County Government definitely found the excitement from the trip.  It’s thrilled to be enjoying our second childhood field trip again.  You would probably think our teachers used to plan our trip when we were in elementary schools days.  So our husband should have helped us and offered some advises for this seemed to be a swift and impulsive decision.  No, this trip is only for us - "Retired Ladies Only" to experience the freshness and pleasure of visiting the backdrop of Gone With The Wind and vestige of The American Civil War - Charleston, S. Carolina.

With the calling of warm weather down south - Maryland has been frigid cold without having major snow storms since November.  Mimi, the cabin fever gone mad, did have something in her mind that she would like to get her money back on TV, high-speed and video Comcast Cable services from her son’s property in Charleston, S. Carolina.  That White Tara - a spacious mansion has been in the market waiting for prospective owners.  So we just packed up and headed out of town for a few days to get away.

Jen-Jen was so stressed out lately from overseeing of all the minutiae of Taiwanese Americans Association’s annual meeting and the mess from renting venue contract.  She accepted our invitation right away and showed up at my house Monday morning 7:00 a.m. sharp.  Don’t forget, she is a well-documented night owl.  Other folks (golden boys or golden girls) we invited were either wishy washy or flat out afraid of being with these three BRAVE and CRAZY women.  We understand the inconvenience of separating the family.  How lucky Mimi and I have a husband - Our Rhett Butler in Gone With The Wind, the rare breed that allows us have fun without any worries.

Mimi and I were old  tennis friends for the past decade.  We have lost touch due to our lives got busy and took different directions.  She found me eventually through the mutual tennis pal who had informed Mimi that I was recently retired and just came back from California as a new grandmother.

Vowed to retire happy and enjoy my life to its fullest, I have been reading books after books, since I came back from California in July 2014.  I have been so suppressed for years by the structure of a job, reading leisurely became impossible.  Now the reading lists are partly from two of my college on-line students’ reading assignments and partly from my life-long hobby.  It so happened I just finished reading 1. Gone With The Wind (by Margaret Mitchell) 2. Rhett Butler’s People (by Donald McCaig) 3. Scarlett (by  Alexandra Ripley).  So the rest is our journey together as good friends who you can always reconnect where it’s left off.  Amazing!

I promised to tell a good story about the American Civil War history with three books written in chronicles the life and times of Scarlett O’Hara (Vivien Leigh), and Rhett Butler (Clark Gable) from the preceding Civil War, the first shot on Fort Sumter, through to Reconstruction.

The Backdrop of History Event and "Gone With The Wind" Territory

Let the Journey Begin

Monday, Martin Luther King’s Birthday - 1/19/2015 – 7:45 a.m. – freezing cold with light flurries and piled up snow since January in Maryland – Major Jen-Jen, an Air Force retired nurse and a free-spirited successful property manager – with our heavy coats posted with my car - 2005 Acura MDX.  Ben, my husband did inspect my car and okayed it.  I had only typed Charleston Visitor Center, 375 Meeting Street on my GPS and a few copies of road maps from Virginia, North Carolina and South Carolina.  Inside we had our personal comfy pillows, food/munchies, and CD songs that Jen-Jen and I would practice for our upcoming concert on 4/25/2015.  The most precious is the three adventurous minds ready to tread the road (I-95) that the Civil War soldiers, either the Unions or the Confederates who had tramped along the road from 1861 - 1865.



I - 95 & Civil War Trails

I remembered passing Richmond, Virginia - the capital of the Confederate State of America.  The city has definitely changed since the Civil War time described in the books, where across the broad expanse of field, practically nothing could be seen but row upon row of tents or the soldiers bivouacked on the open.  On the highway 95, I saw the industry flourished and downtown bustled.  The smoke billowed from the factory’s chimney was the sign of 21st century polluted atmosphere.  Too bad, we did not have time to take the pictures.  

I think we all let our imagination roam free while I kept both of them captivated with Rhett Butler’s dashing dark eyes and swarthy face mocking or jeering Scarlett O’Hara’s spoiled, self-centered but iron-willed personalities.  The conversations shared with our personal accounts of stories.  It may not have the exact drama depicted in the novel, Gone with the Wind, we were able to relate the main theme that the character traits from these two unyielding brats were so much in common.  They clashed like flint and steel.  She was so determined to survive after the South Confederates were defeated by the North Unions.  She vowed that her Tara Planation was what she needed to protect and re-build even if she had to lie, cheat and kill.  Indeed, she had killed one deserted Yankee while she had the burden of Tara Planation on her shoulder.  “What a woman, I have a deep impersonal admiration for your endurance!”,  "My dear, I don't give it a damn!" That was Rhett Butlers comment on Scarlett O’Hara and hers, "Fiddle de dee, tomorrow is another day!”   

We had lunch break at Kenly 95 BP, North Carolina and another one at Ridgeville, South Carolina.  Before we knew it, we had travelled with four wheels almost 600 miles and covered the twelve years span (1861 - 1873) of the stories.  And it’s not quite completed yet!  We had arrived the final destination - Mimi and her son’s "White Tara Mansion” at Mt. Pleasant, South Carolina around 4:30 p.m.    

See Wee Restaurant

We ate like a local - This ramshackle roadside place was a gathering spot for the early European settlers in 17th Century.  The See Wee name was actually a small Indian tribe settled in the region.  They often hunted and fished on the offshore islands.  It brought back some of the descriptions from Rhett Butler’s People (by Donald McCaig) that the young Rhett’s love of marshes and tidewaters of Low Country as a boy.  We ate the fried green tomatoes and She-Crab soup- both are famous Low Country staples.  The Sherry Wine sauce on the side tasted salty and a slight bitter.  We were not the fan, however, Rhett Butler’s mother, Elizabeth Butler loved it a lot.




Charleston Waterfront Park

This was Rhett Butler’s playing field before, during and after the Civil War.  Use your imagination to picture Rhett Butler’s illegal and brave pirate’s behavior - maneuvering dirty tricks to haggle and bargain the arms and merchandises during the civil war time (4/12/1861 – 4/9/1865) at this harbor.  The furious protagonist of Scarlett (by  Alexandra Ripley) Scarlett O'Hara, suffered a heartbreak loss of everything - her Tara plantation and Beau Ashley) - in Georgia, desperately wanted to use her charms to woo Rhett Butler back in his home territory.  She convinced Rhett to take her for a sail on this harbor.  The story hit its height when the storm came and their boat capsized.  Back in Charleston, Scarlett was near death at Rhett’s mother's house.  Rhett Buttler was nursing his internal pain and turmoil and gone until...... reuited in Ireland - their roots by by Alexandra Ripley's account in Scarlett. 


Interesting, but it actually gave me a lot of goosebumps driving on the high bridge with Cooper River underneath me.  The architectural design was quite unique though.   We also visited the local shrimp dock - CA Magwood Jr. and Son’s - Unfortunately we did not come at the right shrimp season.  But, we still bought the freshest shrimps from the girl she caught them a few days ago with the shrimp boat in the picture.





Market St.

Scarlett O’Hara and Rhett’s Butler’s mother’s carriage ruts were everywhere – It’s Rhett’s mother trying to cultivate the tough and spoiled Georgia gal, Scarlett, into Charleston’s old Low Country aristocratic society where her son’s making his fortunes – running the blockade for the Confederates and Unions and expanding the rice plantation and phosphate mining.  Imagine how much a mother loved her own son.  She perfectly exemplified grace and dignity to honor her son in her face.  Mimi, Jen-Jen, did you see yourself in her?  I do!


Waterfront Mansion Ball Room 

Mimi’s husband’s 80th birthday party will be held here.  It will be a big fanfare, all are invited! – Mimi’s is planning the celebration as grand as Twelve Oaks Plantation’s Ball before the start of Civil War – 4/12/1861


Shopping Spree (Here at Market St. and Tanger Outlets) 

What fun to browse the local merchandise - Jen-Jen marveled at fitting $160.00 red shoes.  Mimi’s extravagant gifts for her family and herself at Coach Store (Tanger Outlets - 15 miles from Charleston) made everyone happy.  Three of us had our shares of giddiness window shopping and trying different girls items.  We bought local peanuts, pecan tea cookies to savior the Charleston’s treats.


Sweet Grass Weaving 

Jen-Jen and Mimi learned from the locals about how to make the pretty roses with different colors.  This handicraft was actually brought to South Carolina Low Country by slaves who came from West Africa in the 17th century.  It reminds me of Taichung Da-Jia’s weaving hat 台中 - 大甲帽  - I got very nostalgic when I watched his skillful hands weaved in and out for a basket.

Whole Food Lunch With the Local Folk

Mimi’s easy going and free-spirited personality – meeting the new friend – a heart pacemaker from Biotectronic.  This was the most expensive lunch we had - $50.00.  It ripped off our “whole Paycheck”, but, it’s worth it.

Boone Hall Planation

It’s closed for planning Saturday’s Annual Oyster Festival – we came too early, otherwise, Rhett Butler’s father - Langston Butler’s Dunmore Landing Plantation in the book Rhett Butler’s People (by Donald McCaig) boasted fourteen thousand acres, three hundred and fifty negroes, sixty horses, including five of the finest Thoroughbreds.  Rhett’s own stallion - Tecumseh - was his best toy.  No one could ride him.  I thought about my son who would not let me drink in his car.  He made me finish it before I could get in.  Are men all alike?

Charles Pinckney National Historic Site

This is a 715 acres plantation (Snee Farm) where Charles Pinckney – S. Carolina’s three-terms governor and U.S. Senator - one of the signers of the United States Constitution inherited from his father, Colonel Charles Pinckney in 1728.  Fort Sumter is only 10 minutes drive from here according to the park ranger.  I bought some coloring books and children’s Civil War figures for my grandson - I would be on-call Saturday to baby-sit him in California.

. Mimi’s in front of Camellia garden at Snee Farm

. Moss-hung live-oak tree – three care-free retired Maryland gals posed for memory at the plantation

. See the Hawk on top of the tree branch?

. An old dried-up well at National park - Charles Pinckney’s rice plantation


. Rice -trunk to control the water levels during the rice planting/harvesting season - I need to take my grandson for a trip here one day.  His great grandfather - my father was a good rice farmer in Hsinchu (新竹)

Home-bound - Mission Accomplished 

. We left 6:30 a.m. in the dark to beat the traffic going to Columbia’s direction (S. Carolina’s capital city) 

Comcast Cables were returned and $500.00 credit was all take care of.  But, it’s not what you thought without any drama.  WE COULD NOT FIND ANY TOOLS IN THE WHITE TARA - NO PLIER WRENCH, NO SCISSOR, NO NOTHING!  Ladies hands were not helpful to unscrew the 10 screws on those cables.  Finally, I missed my husband badly at that moment!  He was giving me the "unscrew lessons" on the phone.  Those darn things were mighty tight.  Thanks, Ben.  Mimi’s retrieved the kitchen knives at the last minute - we cut right into the inner wires for all of them!  How ironic!  Scarlett O’Hara could plant and dig the carrots and potatoes with her bare hands at her Tara Plantation.  Mimi and I could not unscrew the screws with our bare hands in her son’s White Tara Mansion!

. The last lunch at Duncan Doughnut – Rocky Mount, N. Carolina

. Reunited with our Rhett Butler finally in Maryland at En Bistro and Sushi Restaurant - Potomac Village, Maryland

. Three retired seniors celebrate and fancy for another trip to somewhere warmer - swap the chilly Maryland for warmer exotic places – any ideas?


. We will do it again - Cheers! - Three Marvelous and Courageous Ladies at White Tara Mansion - Charleston, S. Carolina!






Thursday, February 5, 2015

Writing Samples - My Student at Literacy Council, Maryland


Background

Mary (Hwa Qing) – a 62-year-old Chinese immigrant from Jiangsu, China.   She had only six years of education growing up during  Mao Zedong’s Cultural Revolution era.  She had worked at a family owned Magruder Grocery Store from 1982 for 25 years until it was officially closed due to Rockville Town Center Project.  She was the salad maker in the kitchen, quiet, efficient and observant – a dedicated model employee.  Sad and satisfied that she was able to support herself without any use of English at all.  However, she vowed to learn it whenever she finds the opportunity.

Four Sample Journals

#1. Dear Diary:                                                               Oct6, 2014                                                                                                                                                   
                  Today is the same as every Monday.  I meet my best ever tutor, Janice.  She teaches basic literacy English as a secondary language at Rockville Library.
                         She works hard with me and helps me to read and write.  Also, she shows me how to remember and break down new words until I understand them completely.  In the end, she gives me homework and book to read.
                  Today I have this book by Mr. Milton Whitley.  The title is “Learning to Read at Age 52.”  When I came home I read the book immediately.  It is a true live story.  I finish reading this book at 10:00 p.m.  I spent five hours to finish reading it.  I felt so good after reading the book.  I have great admiration for his courage.

#2.  What Do You Think About This Book?
                  After reading this book, I believe that he said, “Education is freedom; education is powerful; education is the way to live.”  He gives me lots of ideas and courage.  I feel so great.  I am grateful that my teacher, Janice, gives me this book to read.  It will be my life goal!  If he can do it, I can too!

#3.  Columbus Day Activity
                  Today is Columbus Day.  My daughter has day off.  We have a nice plan to go to the farm to pick apples. 
                  At 7 o’clock, I got dressed and prepared the breakfast for the family.  We were done about 9:45 a.m.  My husband and my son left for work.  I washed the dishes and did everything I could in the kitchen.  I looked at the window, it rained so hard outside.  I felt bad.  My daughter asked, “Mom, do you have any other place you’d like to go?”  I said, “No, I don’t, I just like to read the book.”  She said, “OK, I am going to prepare my exam and write my essay homework.”
                  We had lunch and dinner together.  We still felt enjoyable staying home all day as mother and daughter.                   


#4. My Experience - Learning English at Literacy Council, Maryland

        I can’t believe I can still learn English at the age of 62 in Montgomery Literacy Council. 
                  If it’s not Janice as my teacher, I will probably quit already.  I said, “It’s from the bottom of my heart.”  If I want to be good at English, I have to study harder again.  My goal is to either work other volunteering job or a paid job with my good English.
                  I wish my dream come true one day to help those old students in CASSA (Chinese Americans Senior Services Association).  I know their English levels are lower than me.  They need help.
                  I appreciate that Montgomery County Literacy Council have this program for me.  

  

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

老友相聚 (歡迎心儀天母再聚) - 鄭素娥 2/4/2015


心儀返國兩週  後天即將返美
前天才匆匆聯絡老友  感激芳英再度提供聯誼社讓老友相聚
除了上次的基本會員福欣 苑淑 貞婉 霞慧外
雲和及惠玉此次也一起加入歡迎心儀返國聚會
原本博華也答應前來赴會 無奈一早公司臨時有事走不開
淑美因年關將至 公司結帳忙碌只好請假
雖然只有九位老友
美食當前  卻是聒噪依然  相識四十八年
(芳英請我把"四十八"說小聲一點  擔心年歲爺爺奶奶偷聽到)
四十八年的往事憶舊 該說上好幾年才述說得完哪
可喜的是  我們仍興致盎然地繼續追尋著昔日的年輕足跡
敬老車票上是盈滿青春的脈動喔
別忘3/6我們下一場的忘年之約
老友 期待再相見

心儀
大家和我分享了一段美好的時光。雖然只有幾個小時的相處,但是我的回味可以延到無限大。感谢芳英,素娥與霞慧的熱誠聯絡,付出,和雲和,惠玉,貞婉,苑淑,福欣在百忙中抽空參加,我最想説的就是”很榮幸又見到了你們”。期待下一次的再聚。